This is strictly a cultural thing. I'm from a small rural area in Virginia and you would get a crazy look if you asked someone where would you want to live when you retire. You build your home on your property and that is where you retire is the answer. I feel so lost not having my home to live in since retirement. I don't have one now. I was renting a one-bedroom but became ill and moved in with my kids in different states as needed. I go to a senior center during the week and most people there live with their kids or have their kids move in with them. The only people i knew who would ask that would be military who were like vagabonds, moving around and not putting down roots.
South Dakota. We moved here from a large urban city back east almost 10 years ago and whereas the climate leaves much to be desired most of the year, we think the quality of life is unmatched in the US.
Since my wife dies last year[tombird is now just tom] I do not have a support system. I have been getting used to being a single 80 year old man. I am working at it though by joining organizations and discussion groups. My family is scattered back East in Michigan,Ohio,Illinois,North Carolina so there is no place I could move to to be near family. Besides I like it here in San Diego. My health is good but if/when it fails I will check into a home.
We're leaving Phoenix due to population explosion and moving outside of Prescott. We bought 16 acres a few years ago and are having a home built next Spring. We plan on reducing overhead as much as possible with solar/generator power and digging a well. Selling the house in Phoenix should give us enough to pay for the house with a small mortgage for tax purposes. It's a major paradigm shift for us as we are both city people but we'll adjust. I can't wait to garden, plant fruit trees, and have lots of animals.
I've been moving approximately every 10 years of my life and have lived in New York, North Carolina and Florida and have enjoyed each state. My retirement search has been closing in on North Carolina for its mild winters, easy travel to the mountains and beaches, along with its the low cost of living.