Introduce Yourself

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I am a senior and live alone. I am wanting to explore the pen pal program. I think it would be a way to stay social. Because of hand contractures it's difficult for me to write cursive but I can use email, text, messenger no problem. Wondering if there are pen pals who use these systems.I am a retired Disability Law Advocate.

 Howdy - I'm new as a member. Love the Book Lists and would like to get my memoir about caregiving and my wife's battle with terminal brain cancer called "Lucy's Biggest To Fry" along with my debut fiction novel called "The Accidental Player" listed. The Accidental Player follows a newly-minted widower in his late fifties as he stumbles into a singles world he never imagined. His behavior puts his relationship with his daughter at risk. It's based on some of my experiences after my wife died. 

Hello!  Female, 62, single in Southern California.  Just want to put myself out there to meet new peeps and make a friend.  Thanks for stopping by.

Greetings:     Just retired, would like to find a pen pal.  I was a caregiver for seniors, would like to enjoy just some good laughter, funny stories and happy thoughts with a new friend. I was especially fond of the older ladies, once they decided they liked me. (No fooling them) I am an honest 67-year-old single Grandmother of 2. I live with my daughter and her family. Just think of myself as an American Lady with a sense of humor.    Nancy

Hi, I'm Joe.New guy on the block.HAPPY NATIONAL CHINESE ALMOND COOKIE DAY!!!

Hi, I’m Jason, though most know me as 'Bones'—a nickname I’ve carried since grade school. My journey hasn't been easy; after being adopted and later left to navigate the world on my own at 17, I’ve faced a long road of poverty and a recent eight-year prison sentence.Coming home, I’ve found a world that has changed in many ways, yet some things remain the same—specifically the lack of a real support system or true friends. Even my faith, which has always been my compass, feels like it’s hanging by a thread right now.To keep grounded, I lean into my passions: I'm an artist, a fan of car shows, and an avid mountain biker. I’m looking for genuine connection and someone to talk to as I start this next chapter. 

Hi everyone! I’m a dentist and really enjoy meeting new people. I love traveling, trying different cuisines, and chatting about life, work, or hobbies.I’m looking to make some meaningful connections and share experiences. Feel free to comment or send me a message—I’d love to meet new friends!

Hi, I am looking for snail mail pen pals, would anyone be interested in doing this? I am in my 70’s & enjoy sending along with receiving letters thru this type of communication. My interest are are quilting, a bit of crafting, and playing ukulele. Living in South Carolina 

Hello Everyone, I'm Chris by name, 67 years of age and a widower. It gets really lonely as a widower. I Will be happy to make some new connections here. Reach out if you are interested in making new friends. God bless!!! 

I am finding it difficult to go where there may be some replies to my post. AARP is a good site but navigation thru the forums is hard. Doesn't help my 77 years. Anybody have any thoughts? would appreciate.

Let's be penpals! 

Hello and welcome to the Introduce Yourself forum! Feel free to tell us a little bit about yourself below--your background, interests, hobbies, etc. And also check out our other forums for other interests and questions you may have and would like to share.

Hello my name is Tawanna. I'm new to all this and is looking for help on what's free and how to use this AARP. thank you and God Bless Everyone.

I’m 40. I live in Phoenix with my 7-year-old son. We’re fine — he’s thriving, I work full-time, we eat dinner together, laugh at cartoons, and I even managed to save a little for his college fund. But lately… I’ve been staring at my 401(k) statement like it’s a mirror. And what I see isn’t numbers. It’s loneliness. I got divorced three years ago. No drama, no courtroom battles — just quiet paperwork and a bank account that felt like an empty suitcase. He took the house, the stocks, the “future.” I kept the kid, the credit card debt, and the nightly tuck-ins. Now I’m thinking about retirement — not because I want to stop working, but because I’m terrified of what happens after. Who’s going to be there when I’m 65? Who’s going to ask if I ate today? Who’s going to notice if I don’t answer the phone? My son will be grown. He’ll have his own life. His own family. And I’ll be… here. In this same house. With the same routines. Maybe a dog. Maybe a garden. Maybe silence.&n

Just wanted to say hello. Not sure how to navigate yet but will figure it out. Just looking for a place to communicate with like minded seniors, 77. Have all the usual senior concerns. Work full time and have a gift shop in South Jersey. Days are full but the age is there.....marching on.😀.  Never the less it is good to keep in contact with others. Please write, give me some advise about this site. Introduce yourself and give me time to respond. Not so quick anymore.😊 Clutch

 My name is Shirley, I am 63 years old, I love to meet new people my age, I am interested in a walking group. I love to drink coffee and margaritas. I love to read the books at Barnes and Noble and love to shop at Hobby Lobby, Khol's and the Dollar Store $$, I love to meet new people all the time everyone has a story to tell. 

My name is Shari and I just joined AARP yesterday.  I updated my profile with my interests.  I enjoy talking with everyone.  Please feel free to message anytime.  I will respond to every message as soon as possible.  I look forward to talking with you!

Hi, I have moved to IL earlier this year. I'm closer to my family, but I'm starting over looking for new friendships and local connections. I had no idea this forum exists. I'm in my late 50's, interested in dancing, wanting to take upon cross country skiing. I'd like to volunteer locally. Let's see where this goes! 

Hi from the lone star state.

Hi, 👋 came to this forum hoping to meet other senior parents caring for adult children with autism. Also hoping to get recommendations from the community on home phones and daily check-in apps. I don’t want to have to drop everything to talk to a human so I prefer a daily check-in app that just lets me push a button. Also I need maximum flexibility because I’m busy caring for my son around the clock and don’t have a lot of time or energy for this. I’m basically doing this to pacify family, and the last thing I need is them getting alerts that freak them out. Also I need a home phone that is desk phone style (no cellphones) that have programmable buttons for speed dial so  can train my son to call his sister or nephew  if something were to happen to me. But I still need some of the features cellphones offer like recording voicemail messages, converting them to text, and storing them in the cloud or somewhere retrievable. I also need to be able to record entire audio

My name is TUYISHIME Placide from Rwanda. I enjoy connecting with people, sharing ideas, and learning from diverse experiences.I joined this platform to engage in meaningful discussions, expand my network, and explore opportunities for collaboration and personal growth. I look forward to getting to know you all and contributing to our conversations.Thank you for having me!

     I am a 58 year old Woman who feels like I have spent my entire life trying to make everyone else happy and cared for.      I am a Singer, Songwriter, and Recording Artist. I sang all kinds of genre, with different groups. I performed mostly Country, and Jazz with bands; traveling from New York to Nashville during the late 1980's into the 1990's.      I started a family in 1992, and continued to write music, and record. I started my own Publishing Company. I also wrote a couple childrens books while raising my four children.      I must say, that I enjoy Recording songs that I write the most. I love the excitement of collaboration and creativity with musicians and producers.      After all these years, I feel that I am better than ever, and truly love myself for exactly who I am..., flaws and all! I am looking forward to what the future brings.  

Hello to everyone from South Carolina. Hoping to contribute to the forums and maybe make some new friends along the way.  Say hello if you get a chance. Young at heart, slightly older in other places. 😁

Just joined the forum! Hello to all from FL